News Flash: Baby Gone Wilde!

 

Babies are invading Hollywood! Actress Olivia Wilde and her fiancé Jason Sudeikis have announced that they are expecting their first child!

 

Can you imagine not only how funny that kid is going to be but also how good looking?

 

The SNL actor proposed to Wilde last January and ever since the two have only grown even more in love that is almost makes us sick... almost! 

 

Just like us, the couples fans are thrilled about the news. So much so that Olivia took to her twitter account to graciously thank her fans for their tremendous amount of support for her and Jason.

 

"WOW. You guys are awesome. So kind. Thank you thank you thank you. P.S - Babies eat mostly salsa right?" (Olivia's twitter message to her fans)

 

We couldn't be happier for the couple and we wish them all the happiness once this little bundle of joy enters their lives!

 

Time to make your predictions folks! What do you think baby Sudeikis is going to be: a boy or a girl? Our bets are on a boy!

 

 (source: justjared.buzznet.com)

News Flash: Wedding Bells for Lauren!

 

 

Well it's official! Lauren Conrad of "Laguna Beach" and "The Hills" fame is engaged!

 

William Tell, her beau of nearly two years, popped the question a few weeks ago (Oct 13th) and she shared the news with her fans via www.laurenconrad.com, her twitter account and she shared a picture of her beautiful engagement ring through her Instagram account.

 

 

Fans of the reality star have shown their excitement along with Lauren and we're sure they will be following along with her as she starts planning for her future nuptials. Since the reality star gone fashion mogul has already shared her journey with us this far, we are positive she will be posting more pictures of her wedding plans, such as flower arrangements, music selection and table settings.

 

That being said, fans shouldn't hope for a televised wedding. If there is one thing that sets Lauren apart from the rest of her reality co-stars is that when she said she was done with television, she really meant it! Sure she may sell her wedding photos to a magazine such as People or Martha Stewart Weddings (Lauren really likes Martha Stewart) but don't plan on seeing the whole event live. Ever since she left reality television Lauren has worked hard to prove that she is a business savvy humanitarian who has devoted herself to the empire she has built from the ground up. A televised wedding would go against the brand she has created herself, the brand which proves that she is more than just another person you watch on television.

 

Let's talk guests. It's safe to say that there will not be many familiar faces invited to the wedding. That is, familiar faces from "The Hills" anyways. We could definitely see Lo Bosworth (one of Lauren's best friends since school) being a bridesmaids along with her younger sister and a few other friends she has had since high school (Jilly & Maura perhaps?) What about Brody Jenner, Whitney Port and Audrina Patridge? We wouldn't count them in as the reality starts haven't kept in touch that much over the years. As far as familiar faces from "Laguna Beach" goes, we could totally see Stephen, Dieter, Trey and maybe a few others sitting in on her wedding as well.

 

Let's talk location. We could totally see Lauren going back home and getting married in Laguna Beach or Malibu. Somewhere romantic, private and intimate where the happy couple and their guests can have a great time and be comfortable. We wouldn't be surprised to see Lauren get married this summer either. She is very open with her feminine and girly side and with gorgeous summer weather it gives her unlimited options for what kind of color palette she might choose to base her wedding around. We see pretty pastel blues, yellows and pinks as being a possible choice!

 

Let's talk the future Mrs. William Tell. Of course Lauren won't be changing her last night (we'd be shocked if she did) since "Lauren Conrad" is her brand. However, as far as the future goes for her, don't be too surprised if you see her release another book in the near future all about party planning, especially weddings. You can also look forward to her expanding her clothing line out into the bridal market as well. The thing with Lauren is, whatever she experiences, whatever tips and tricks she learns, she wants you to learn, experience and grow alongside her! Even though after marriage usually comes a baby carriage.. we don't expect Lauren to be on the "baby bump watch" anytime soon. Another great quality about Lauren Conrad is that she likes to really take in and experience every moment of her life. You can count on her enjoying being a wife, entrepreneur, fashion icon and role model before she starts writing children's books and creating a line of eco-friendly baby products like Jessica Alba.

 

Overall, we are wishing Lauren and William all the best as they get ready for a beautiful and memorable moment in both of their lives!

 

 

(source: http://www.usmagazine.com/celebrity-news/news/lauren-conrad-is-engaged-to-boyfriend-william-tell----see-her-ring-20131310)

 

 

 

The Rumor Mill: What's going on with Gosling?

 

So rumor has it that Ryan Gosling and Eva Mendes are on the rocks! Media outlets have reported that

they broke up a few months ago but agreed to "work on their relationship" and try again.

 

Unfortunately there are speculations that Ryan Gosling has quite the moody personality (we'd believe it, he's a Disney kid aren't they all?) and she has a tendency to let her jealousy get in the way of their romance.

 

Although it's sad to see a celebrity couple break up, especially when they seemed to make each other very happy, but I think we can all agree that having Ryan back out on the market is a breath of fresh air for women everywhere! Our fingers are crossed for him and Rachel McAdams to get back together again, third times a charm right?

 

What do you think about this news? Are you shocked that they have already broken up once already and are willing to try it again? Are you hoping the rumor isn't true and that they stay together? Either way we'll be keeping our eyes and ears on this story and hopefully Rachel McAdams will too!

Ask Michelly: New date night ideas

 

You asked: "What are some different date ideas that I can recommend to my boyfriend? I am so tired of going on the same dinner and movie cliché date!"

 

Michelly answered: "If you can afford it, think about taking a little day trip somewhere. Maybe to the mountains if you live close by them or to a favorite park or maybe find a ranch and pay to go horseback riding for the afternoon.  You could even propose to him that you guys get tickets to a sporting event (basketball, baseball, football or even hockey) that way he gets his way of doing something he'd like to do and you don't have to order the same butternuts quash ravioli at a restaurant where they know you by name!"

 

 

Do you have any unique date ideas? Share them in the comments below!

 

 

- Michelly (Ruby Red Contributor) 

Ask Michelly: Long Distance Love

 

 

You asked: "When you're in a long distance relationship what is the best way to keep things from falling apart? How do you stay committed to each other without letting jealousy or suspicions run rapid?"

 

 

Michelly answered: "A long distance relationship definitely has its up and downs so there is no way of getting around that. It takes work. Communication is definitely important to any strong relationship, and even though it may be hard when you two aren't in the same city, it's something you have to keep in mind whenever you feel angry or jealous. If there comes a time where you feel like you're losing interest in the relationship or that maybe he/she is, talk to him when you are both free of distractions. You may find that he misses you as much as you miss him and you may able to find a solution to your jealousy or suspicions. However, if you can never find a time that is convenient for both of you to talk and work things out, it would be best to end the relationship before things completely spiral out of control and you get hurt even more. Skype is also a great resource for long distance relationships. A good way to stay connected and committed to each other while you're apart is to schedule cute little interactive dates via Skype and during this date there cannot be any distractions. No cell phones on it the background or TV's. Just the two of you being able to reconnect and reassure each other of the commitments that you have made. But do remember that as much as it is important that you keep your relationship intact and healthy, it's also important that you live your own life as well. Don't dwell on the days that you can't talk or have Skype dates. Instead join an exercise group or whatever hobby you like, so you will be able to kill some of the time in-between."

 

- Michelly (Ruby Red Contributor)  

 

 

The M&M Report: Accepting a Job

You asked: "If an employer offers the job to you right after you finish your interview in his/her office, should you accept the job just as fast or does it seem too desperate?"

 

 

Michelly answered: "If it is a job that you are really interested in and it feels right to you, just go for it! They probably won't see it as desperation - more like that you are eager to start learning and working for such a great company. I wouldn't worry too much about looking desperate. They offered you the job so why wait if its something you want. However, if you are having doubts then I would recommend thanking them for the offer but you will need some time to consider the position. Once you've had time to digest the information your received from your interview, if you decide that you want to accept the job call them back ASAP."

 

 

Maddy answered: "While I agree with you a little bit Michelly, I do have to disagree with accepting a job right on the spot. If it is a professional/corporate job offer I would suggest you telling them that you want to take the remainder of the day to think about your options and that you will get back to them before their closing time. To me this showcases that you have other options on the table and that you are a very marketable person and are a hard worker. Sometimes letting future employers think that you are wanted elsewhere will give them an extra push to "up the stakes" and offer you something more if you so choose to work for them. Ex: they may offer you a higher wage/salary, or other offers that will help you excel). However, if you are a part time student looking to work in a retail chain I would say that it is alright to accept the job on the spot. You'll get some work experience under your belt, make your bank account grow while you're looking for the next best thing."

 

 

Have you ever been hesitant about taking a job on the spot? Share your experience in the comments below!

 

 

-Michelly (Ruby Red Contributor)

-Maddy (Ruby Red Contributor) 

The M&M Report: Choosing the Right Career Path

 

You asked: "How do you know which career is right for you?"

 

 

Michelly answered: "That's a wonderful question! I would suggest trying out a couple jobs, really get some work experience under your belt and find out what your passions, interests are and what are your strengths and weaknesses. At the end of the day career choice is based on which career would make you the happiest long-term. A great resource is OCCinfo (http://alis.alberta.ca/occinfo/Content/RequestAction.asp?format=html&aspAction=GetHomePage&Page=Home) which hosts a bunch of job descriptions, education requirements and even salary!"

 

 

Maddy answered: "I agree with Michelly tenfold. If there was anything I would change about high school is that I think work experience classes should be mandatory. It's never fun leaving school and being thrown into the unexpected. You'll know when you're ready for college and working to save a little more dough never hurt anyone! That being said, when you're looking at colleges and different degree options make sure you sit down with an academic advisor! It may take up some of your time but it will be worth it. The last thing you want to do is enroll in something and not finish it because you hate it (trust me I've been there). Tip: When you go for academic advising, make sure they go through the course material with you for each degree option - not just the program requirements and transfer features. Going through the course material helps because then you will know what you're in for during the next four years of your studies."

 

 

Have you found the career of your dreams? Tell us your experience to achieve your career in the comments below!

 

 

- Michelly (Ruby Red Contributor)

-Maddy (Ruby Red Contributor)



The M&M Report: How to Deal with Workplace Woes

You asked: "How do I excel at a job where my employer isn't very approachable?"

 

 

 Michelly answered: "Just keep doing what you are doing. Show up to work on time, complete the tasks required to fulfill a workday and don't be afraid to put in a little extra effort when working around the store/office. Hopefully they will recognize your efforts sooner rather than later and good things will begin to snowball from there. Don't forget to participate in small talk every now and then to create a bond with your employer as well, from there you might become more comfortable with her and vice versa."

 

 

Maddy answered: "I agree with Michelly, and it's hard to add anything else really. I would like to expand on how to bond with your employer though. If you work in a small retail store or office, on everyone's down time (ex: lunch break) try to strike up a positive conversation with everyone in the office/store. By putting yourself out there you are marketing yourself to your boss. He/she gets to see the impression you make on others and learn a lot about your personality (what you like, don't like, your long and short-term goals).  By doing so, maybe the next time a new position opens up in the company your employer will consider the positive influence you bring to the company, and BOOM - hello promotion."


Have you overcome obstacles at work that at the time seemed impossible? Share your experience in the comments below!


-Michelly (Ruby Red Contributor)
- Maddy (Ruby Red Contributor) 

Ask Michelly: Should I Date Someone With Kids?

 You asked: "Is it ever okay to date someone with children and how long should I be dating someone before you actually "meet the kids?"

 

 

 

Michelly answered: "This is a hit or miss question because it depends on who your comfortable dating and if you're okay with being secondary in a relationship. I say secondary because you must know that his children will always come first. You have to get used to the idea that while you have a romantic date organized for the both of you, these plans could change at the drop of the hat. If you're comfortable with supporting your man and helping him be a great father, then I think it's okay for you to date someone with children. As far as when you should meet his children, I think you shouldn't meet them for awhile, for about a year when your relationship seems more long-term than just a quick fling. Remember you don't want to confuse his kid(s) if one day you're hanging out with them and a week later you are nowhere to be found."

 

 

Have you ever dated someone with kids? Offer your advice in the comments below!


-Michelly (Ruby Red Contributor) 

Quick Tip: Study Stresses

Whether you're in middle school, high school, your community college or university getting your graduate degree, school can take a toll on anyone. Especially during this part of the school year where you're either in the middle of midterms, just finishing them up or getting ready for that big unit test on Monday.

 

 

With that being said we brainstormed a short list of S.S.S.F's (Student Study Stress Relievers) for you. Use as many of them as you want or create some of your own and share them below! We hope this helps and remember not to let the pressures of school get you down!

 

 

1. Exercise. When your studying and you feel like you've hit a brick wall, take a break. An exercise break that is. Take your dog for a walk outside, head over to your local gym for a spin class or even practise yoga on the yoga mat you begged your mom for at Christmas. Sometimes it helps to get away from the environment that's causing you stress. Don't feel bad about taking an hour break to exercise. Trust us when we say that you will go back to studying with a clearer mind and you'll probably find that while you're running on the treadmill or throwing punches at a punching bag, you'll be rehearsing what you just studied in the back of your mind.

 

2. Make a schedule. I am attending university online so a lot of my study time has to come from a place of motivation and when I feel like I am ready to learn. And don't kid yourself I have to self-motivate myself a lot. Creating a schedule helped me feel like I was attending regular classes (even though I'm in my jammies) but it also helped me get into a routine, so when 9:00a.m rolls around I don't need to push myself to get motivated, I already am  because it has become a lifestyle choice I made.

 

3. Don't pressure yourself, reward yourself. Studying takes a lot of motivation, commitment and mental stamina. So if on Friday night, you've only been studying for that unit exam for only 2 hours and have caught yourself dozing off - stop studying! This goes hand in hand with taking an exercise break, but the more you pressure yourself into memorizing the material in the textbook or trying to solve that one algebra equation that just isn't making sense, just stop what you're doing and go reward yourself. Go watch a 30 minute comedy show on T.V (2 Broke Girls, Dads, Mom, Big Bang Theory) and get yourself into that happy place again where you don't feel like everything is riding on that one exam. It's okay to strive to be successful in school, but there's successful and there's being pressured. And if you still feel like you cannot get into studying biology terminology, call it a night because when you're stressed and beating yourself up over something chances are you won't remember it anyways because whether you want to admit it or not, you've already mentally checked out. So, get some rest, hang out with friends, watch a movie and cuddle with your dog because tomorrow is another day. Remember that it should be about the journey, enjoy life, spread out your activities throughout the week because you do not have to cram everything in on one day.

 

4. You're personal best IS always good enough. You shouldn't feel like you have to be the best at everything. In my humble opinion that's what causes stress and anxiety. When it's time to take that test remember that you did your best throughout the week. You prepared physically by working out all your stress and nerves through exercise and, you made a schedule to help keep you motivated and organized. You also prepared mentally, not just by studying the course material, but by reassuring yourself that you're enough, you're personal best is good enough, you studied, you had fun and enjoyed the journey now you have to leave the rest up to someone else because you did all you can do to become successful.

 

 

Have a study stress reliever of your own? Leave us a comment below!

 

 

Maddy ( Ruby Red Contributor) 

Ask Michelly: New Relationship Jitters!

 

We've decided to start a new feature on this blog where you can submit your relationship, life or career questions in and we'll answer them. Some of them will be answered by a couple of people where others will be answered by a person who can relate most to the topic at hand. Feel free to submit your questions publicly or privately and we will try to answer all of them as efficiently as possible.

 

Here's a look at how this works:

 

 

You Asked: "When is it appropriate to be intimate with someone you're newly dating? After 5 dates? 2 weeks? A month? And what do you risk (emotionally) if you are intimate too soon in a relationship?"

 

 

Michelly's Advice: "In my personal opinion and experiences, it is best to wait until you are comfortable and you have gotten to know the person on a more intimate level. Of course, it really comes down to what you decide, what you will and won't do and if you really feel like it is the best decision for your relationship. However, if you do feel that you may be getting intimate too early in the relationship you may risk the potential of this budding into a serious relationship, especially if he isn't as committed as you are and if that's the case it may just turn into a "booty-call" type of relationship. Overall you have to listen to your listen to your heart and go with your head. If you honestly feel like being intimate with someone on the first date is for you, then by all means go for it. Everyone is different and will have different opinions regarding this subject. You just have to know what type of person you are, who you want to be remembered as and don't let yourself be pressured into being someone or something you're not."

 

Have you ever been in a similar situation? Do you have any advice to offer? Share it in a comment or message! This topic is open for discussion!

 

- Michelly (Ruby Red Contributor)

Fit Tip Maddy: Cure a Sweet Tooth

I have the worst sweet tooth in the world! Can you relate?

 

 

It doesn't matter how many times I have tried to eat vegetables or anything healthy, when I'm in a mood for something sweet (chocolate almonds, chocolate strawberries, gummy bears, etc.) there is no stopping me. Sometimes I'll deliberately go to the grocery store just for snacks.

 

 

That being said, because I am trying to get fit (not dangerously skinny) for a 3k run in September 2014, I have vowed to take more control of my sweet tooth rather than indulge like it's going to be my last meal.

 

 

I posted this picture of a bowl of cut up fruit with a dollop of yogurt because believe it or not it can help cure a sweet tooth. Sprinkle a little dark chocolate shavings in with the yogurt and you'll be laughing to the bank. I never truly believed that you could get full off of fruit before but you can and it's healthier (not in terms of sugar) than let's say that mint chocolate chip ice cream sitting in your freezer.

 

 

So here's my challenge to you: The next time you have a craving for a chocolate bar, or a big bowl of ice cream, try indulging in a bowl full of fresh fruit. Especially pineapple! Not a big fan of fruit? Make a smoothie! I'll post my favorite raspberry-banana breakfast smoothie later on. Smoothie's are just as great and they can sometimes keep you fuller longer.

 

Let me know how you do with this challenge! I'll keep you up to date on my journey to getting healthy for my 3k run!

 

 

Thanks for listening,

 

Maddy (Ruby Red Contributor)

Open Discussion: Shocking or No?

 

 

Miranda Kerr and her husband Orlando Bloom made it public knowledge this week that they have decided to separate. Honestly, are we shocked?

 

 

Over the summer the Victoria's Secret model was spotted on numerous occasions sans wedding ring. Back in the warmer months rumors of a possible split began to surface but then suddenly fizzled out when the couple were seen together more frequently.

 

 

That being said, it doesn't really come to us as a surprise. Even though the pair were spotted together didn't prove that they were actually "happy" together. We strongly believe that the couple was having relationship difficulties earlier on but amicably agreed to work it out for the sake of their young son Flynn.

 

 

You've heard our opinion now it's time to open up the discussion to you! What do you think about this split? Shocking or not so much? 

Bestie Fun 101!

It's starting to get into those winter months again! So we thought it would be fun to create a quick list of things you can do with your besties during those days where you have no choice but to be stuck inside or even during those times when you're itching to play in some powder!
 

 

Winter Bestie Fun 101 (Indoors)

 

 

1. Bake up a storm! During a half day off from school or a long weekend, rally up a bunch of your girlfriends and bake some cookies or cupcakes! We hear the S'mores cookies are really good! (recipe to follow)

 

 

2. Princess Party! Who doesn't love a good Disney Princess movie? Or how about a marathon of them? Grab your buddies, pop some popcorn, make some cocktails (virgin or with alcohol), dress up as your fave princesses and pretend like you're the "Belle of the Ball."

 

 

3. Game Day! You're never to old to play 'Truth or Dare' or even 'Go Fish'. Find a game that you and your besties all love, throw on a pot of hot tea/coffee or hot chocolate, eat some of those tasty treats you made earlier and let your competitive nature shine!

 

4. Strike a Pose! You can go as fancy as you like by creating your own backdrop or props or you can be as simple as you want by taking photos with just funny faces. A fun photo shoot can make those dreary winter days go by fast and you'll have photo evidence of that wonderful day spent with your closest girlfriends!

 

5. Get Crafty! Round up a couple of your besties and get your creativity on. Surf Pinterest boards (preferably ours) and get some DIY ideas. Maybe make some cute customized wine glasses/charms to give as Christmas presents or paint ceramics together! The options are endless.

 

 

Winter Bestie Fun 101 (Outdoors)

 

1. Build a Snowman family! This is  the perfect opportunity for a few friends to get together and go break in their new snow pants. You can get as creative with these families as you want, give them names, customize their carrot noses, facial expressions or whatever you please. Plus, the end result (your snowman family) is enjoyable and makes your neighborhood a little more festive for the holiday season!

 

2. Have a snowball fight! Well, a nice one anyways. Gather a couple of your friends, divide up into teams, and get launching. Decide on the rules and a prize and finish up the game with a hot cup of hot chocolate from Tim Horton's! Tip: make sure you don't throw it like a dodge ball and that the snowball doesn't contain rough ice pieces. Ouch!

 

3. Go skating! Not everyone is coordinated to go snowboarding or go skiing and sometimes it's easy to feel left out when some of your friends decide to hit the slopes while you're stuck at home babysitting the dog - again! To us, skating is a safer winter sport (well, kinda if you disregard the sharp blades) but chances are if you ask your friend up the street to hit the local ice pond for a quick skate she'll say yes and you won't have to be bored on another weekend.

 

4. Strike a Pose! Michelle and Maddy do this all the time. It doesn't matter what the weather conditions are they always try to have fun. Find a scenic place in your neighborhood or city, grab two cameras (trust us you'll need them) and start taking pictures of whatever you feel like. Do funny faces, cute winter portraits, awkward poses or reference a photo challenge list either and tackle the challenge together!  Trust us, it might be cold while you're outside waiting for your camera to take the picture, but the backdrop of crisp snow banks makes it worth it! Tip: wear boots if you plan on stomping through deep snow banks, you don't want to have to heat your socks up over the car air vents!

 

5. Be an Angel! Again, you're never too young to make a snow angel! Honestly, when was the last time you even made a snow angel? Even though this doesn't take up a lot of time, you and your friends can head outside and make funny snow angels together while you wait for your next pot of tea to boil!

 

 

So there you have it, a quick list of 10 activities to do both indoor and outdoor with your best friends! We hope this will bring you lots of joy and entertainment as the winter months begin and Christmas holidays grow closer!

 

Do you have an idea or activity that you do with your friends during winter break? Share your opinion by leaving a comment or message! 

How fair is it?

So we couldn't help but notice how much attention this has been getting. As most of you probably know, Selena Gomez teared up during a performance of her song "Love Will Remember." According to the news and other blogs online, the songs inspiration was her romance with ex-boyfriend Justin Bieber.

Now we all know that breakups can be difficult, and keep in mind they were together for quite a long time (approx. 2 or 3 years) so of course it is going to take some time for her to get over him. We're also sure that having to deal with such a personal and private matter in such a public way isn't making things easy on her either. Hence her quote saying: "Everyday I am told that I am not sexy enough."

So our question to all of you is: "How fair is it that her breakup has to be exploited in every way possible?" Do you believe it is our right to know what is going on in her personal life because she is a public figure or do you believe that we should all leave her alone, stop patronizing her because she has real emotions and let her deal with her breakup for privately?

We'd love to hear your take so leave us a comment or a message!